Consultation Papers

Living our Faiths in Community:
Towards Gender Justice and Genuine Partnership of Women and Men



May 14-19, 2004
Wongsanit Ashram, Thailand


Jointly organized by:
Asia Pacific Alliance of YMCAs (APAY), Christian Conference of Asia (CCA),and Church Development Service (EED), Germany,



 Concept Paper 


Final Report

1) Background to the Consultation
2) Objectives of the Consultation
3) Expected Outcomes
4) Program Content
5) Impact of the Consultation





 Final Statement  



Closing Liturgy

Consultation papers

Interfaith Consultation on Gender Justice, Hope S. Antone (Word version)


A Quiet Movement of Buddhist Women in Cambodia, Peou Vanna, ANLWC, Project Manager (Word version)


Gender Discrimination in India, Manoj Kumar Singh (Word version)


Gender Justice Bias in Madura: The Case of the Lost Hope Toward a Local Value, Ma'arif Jamuin2 (Word version)


Gender Justice -A Theological and Cultural Perspective, Naeem Shakir (Word version)


How I feel to be a Javanese Moslem Woman in the Indonesian Context
,
dewi candraningrum (Word version)


On Gender Justice: A Christian Perspective
,
Liza B. Lamis (Word version)


Unjust Gender Issues in a Moslem Family in Surakarta
,
Totok Budi Santoso (Word version)



Photos 

Concept Paper

Background

During the Consultation on Inter-religious Cooperation in Asia on 5-10 April 2003 held in Prapat, Indonesia, issues of gender justice figured prominently. Hence, the group of 37 participants, 10 women and 27 men, representing the four major religions of Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism and Islam, adopted as one of its recommendations:

Examine the patriarchal theologies, structures and practices of our religions and cultures in order to empower women by developing alternative educational resources for the promotion of equal partnership between women and men.

This statement is very revealing of the group’s awareness that religions reinforce patriarchal ways, beliefs, structures and practices and of the need to empower women to build awareness and transform inequalities in religious traditions into gender fair systems and customs.

There have been some attempts by various regional ecumenical women’s organizations at inter-religious dialogue and cooperation. However, the tendency of these dialogues was more to explain the positive side of the respective religions, to convince each other of the worth of one’s religion. There was little, if at all, critique of the religions’ negative aspects that are at the core of the unjust relationships between women and men in society. In the attempt to project a good image of the different religions, these inter-religious cooperation programmes overlooked religious teachings and traditions that reinforced gender inequality.

The women and men who met in Prapat were brave to confront together how religious traditions, structures and practices in Asia have contributed to the subjugation, impoverishment and disempowerment of women. The recognition of this reality, although it caused many tears, was a powerful and liberating experience for all of us.

In Asia, there is a growing movement for women’s empowerment in which women themselves are re-reading and re-interpreting their sacred texts to uncover the hidden stories of women in a world shaped by male interests. There are also men who are involved in or sympathetic to this movement. They recognize that religion, as an important social institution, should promote peace and harmony based on justice among men and women in society. Women and men have crucial roles to play towards development of humanity and fulfilling the Mission, beliefs and traditions of religions. Women and men from the different religions can learn from each other and work together to address their common problems.

It is an urgent task therefore for representatives from religious traditions, both men and women, to address the issue of gender justice and genuine partnership in their efforts towards inter-religious cooperation so that men and women can live a truly shared humanity that has genuine respect for each of God’s creation.


Objectives of the Consultation

    - to share each other's pain
    - To facilitate gender sensitivity among the participants and enable them to
    recognize the importance of gender justice and genuine partnership for the work
    of peace-building in Asia;

    - To empower participants to lift up the liberating themes of their religions and
    critically examine the patriarchal theologies, structures and practices of their
    religions, cultures and traditions that are disempowering to any groups in their
    communities – e.g. women, youth and children.

    - To explore ways of developing alternative educational resources that promote
    equal partnership between women and men.



Programme Contents

Women’s Caucus

A women’s caucus/forum will be held to build each other’s confidence, listen to women stories of being members of the major religions and re-affirm their commitment towards peace building in inter-religious context in Asia.

Gender Sensitivity Exercises

The community building processes during the Consultation will involve gender sensitivity exercises for all the participants, both men and women.

Storytelling: Images of Man and Woman in Different Religious Traditions

The participants will be encouraged to tell their stories about the images of men and women in their own religious traditions and stories of pains of men and women caused by religious norms or expectations, and of processes of healing from experiences of gender injustice. This will also be an opportunity to tell stories of living together with people of other faiths, sharing of power, spirituality and peace. The participants may use creative methods to present their stories.

Case Studies/Panel Presentations on Scripture Studies

Representatives from the four religions will present a study and analysis of their own sacred texts related to gender, different interpretations in the light of historical development, and the scope for peace building efforts in terms of promoting gender justice and genuine partnership among men and women of their own faiths.

Exposure visits

There will be visits to organisations/communities that will inspire and motivate the participants to continue building a culture of peace and strengthening partnerships among men and women through inter-religious cooperation.

Theme Perspectives and Synthesis

A presentation on the theme, integrating the stories, analyses, critique and discussions of participants will be given. This will also provide for a synthesis and forward-looking principles and strategies that will help to strengthen the promotion of gender justice in inter-religious context. The Presenter, after noting the concepts and ideas of the participants in the Consultation, may pose challenges to the participants in terms of pursuing the work of peace building in Asia given the dominant patriarchal systems, structures and cultures within the society and the religious traditions.

Workgroup discussions

There will be workshops and small discussions groups on the emerging issues and topics in the Consultation to enable participants to share more meaningfully and learn from each other.

Morning Reflections

In the spirit of interfaith dialogue and partnership, participants will reflect together at the start of each day. These reflection sessions will be participatory, inspirational and spiritually nurturing.

Action Planning

The participants will work together and discuss ways on strengthening inter-religious dialogue and cooperation in Asia through a gender-just partnership among women and men.

Cultural Sharing

The participants will highlight the community and religious cultural traditions that promote gender justice and genuine partnership among men and women.


Processes and Methodologies

ICP Continuing Committee

The ICP Continuing Committee, representing the 4 major religions, will facilitate and organize the Programme through the Christian Conference of Asia and the Asia and Pacific Alliance of YMCAs as Staff/Organizers.

Consultation Process

The Consultation will provide for listening, sharing and healing processes for the participants. Reflections, analyses and critique of religious traditions in relation to gender justice will be done in an open, participatory and interactive manner. There will be time for plenary deliberations and small group discussions to clarify concepts, study and learn together in a friendly and peaceful environment. The participants will be encouraged to exercise to a wider extent their skills in listening to one another, involving respect and empathy.

Case studies and exposure visits will also be planned for more concrete and practical sharing of actions and work done in the area of inter-religious dialogue and partnership in terms of gender justice.

Resource Persons

There will be Presenters, selected representatives from the four major religions, to enrich the discussions and broaden the perspectives of the Consultation. The Presenters’ papers/ presentation materials should be submitted at least one month prior to the Consultation.

Steering Committee/Writing Group

The ICP Continuing Committee and selected participants will form the Steering Committee. This Committee will be responsible for organizing and overseeing the Consultation Process. This Committee will also select a writing group that will be tasked to integrate the discussions in the Consultation into one document/statement.


Expected Outcomes

    - Gender sensitivity and adequate understanding of the need to deal with gender
    justice in the context of inter-religious dialogue and cooperation among the
    participants

    - Identification of religious themes related to gender justice and genuine
    partnership between men and women and critical analyses of religious customs
    and principles that hinder empowerment of women and genuine partnership
    between men and women

    - Participants are equipped in critically examining the patriarchal theologies,
    structures and practices of their religions, cultures and traditions;

    - Recommendations made on promoting gender justice within religious institutions
    and society and seeking alternative educational resources that promote equal
    partnership between women and men

    - Commitment to continue work towards building a culture of peace in Asia



Dates and Venue

14-19 May 2004, 6 days including arrival and departure
Thailand


Participants

Twenty participants, including the Resource Persons and the ICP Continuing Committee, will take part in the Consultation. Women theologians will be invited to participate and also to present their perspectives. Participants are expected to demonstrate openness to, if not active participation in feminism or the movement for women’s empowerment, or advocacy of gender justice. They should be in a position to share, contribute and apply their learning.

Participation will be selected based on:
- 50-60% should be grassroots persons with inter-religious cooperation experience
- 50% should be below the age of 30 years of age
- 60% women; 40% men;
- Male participants should be gender-sensitive
- Equal participation from the four religions- Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism and Islam.

The final selection of participants from nominated persons for participation from the different religions based on participation criteria and from different geographical regions of Asia will be made by the Continuing Committee.

Final Report

1) Background to the Consultation


During the Consultation on Inter-religious Cooperation in Asia on 5-10 April 2003 held in Prapat, Indonesia, issues of gender justice figured prominently. Hence the participants of this consultation adopted as one of its recommendations.

    Examine the patriarchal theologies, structures and practices of our religions and
    cultures in order to empower women by developing alternative educational
    resources for the promotion of equal partnership between women and men.


This statement is very revealing of the group’s awareness that religions reinforce patriarchal ways, beliefs, structures and practices and of the need to empower women to build awareness and transform inequalities in religious traditions into gender fair systems and customs.

There have been some attempts by various regional ecumenical women’s organizations at inter-religious dialogue and cooperation. However, the tendency of these dialogues was more to explain the positive side of the respective religions and to convince each other of the worth of one’s religion. There was little critique, if any at all, of the religions’ negative aspects that are at the core of the unjust relationships between women and men in society. In the attempt to project a good image of the different religions, these inter-religious cooperation programmes overlooked religious teachings and traditions that reinforced gender inequality.

The women and men who met in Prapat were brave to confront together how religious traditions, structures and practices in Asia have contributed to the subjugation, impoverishment and disempowerment of women. The recognition of this reality, although it caused many tears, was a powerful and liberating experience for all of us.

In Asia, there is a growing movement for women’s empowerment in which women themselves are re-reading and re-interpreting their sacred texts to uncover the hidden stories of women in a world shaped by male interests. There are also men who are involved in, or sympathetic to, this movement. They recognize that religion, as an important social institution, should promote peace and harmony based on justice among men and women in society. Women and men have crucial roles to play towards development of humanity and fulfilling the true essence of religions. Women and men from the different religions can learn from each other and work together to address their common problems.

It is an urgent task therefore for representatives from religious traditions, both men and women, to address the issue of gender justice and genuine partnership in their efforts towards inter-religious cooperation so that men and women can live a truly shared humanity that has genuine respect for each of God’s creation.


2) Objectives of the Consultation

    - To share each other’s pain and stories of empowerment, healing and
     wholeness;

    - To  facilitate gender sensitivity among the participants and enable them to
    recognize the importance of gender justice and genuine partnership for the work
    of peace-building in Asia;
    - To empower participants to lift up the liberating themes of their religions and
    critically examine the patriarchal theologies, structures and practices of their
    religions, cultures and traditions that are disempowering to any groups in their
    communities – e.g. women, youth and children.

    - To explore ways of developing alternative educational resources that promote
    equal partnership between women and men.



3) Expected Outcomes

    - Gender sensitivity and adequate understanding of the need to deal with gender
    justice in the context of inter-religious dialogue and cooperation among the
    participants

    - Identification of religious themes related to gender justice and genuine
    partnership between men and women and critical analyses of religious customs
    and principles that hinder empowerment of women and genuine partnership
    between men and women

    - Participants are equipped in critically examining the patriarchal theologies,
    structures and practices of their religions, cultures and traditions;

    - Recommendations made on promoting gender justice within religious institutions
    and society and seeking alternative educational resources that promote equal
    partnership between women and men

    - Commitment to continue work towards building a culture of peace in Asia


4) Participants

A total of 23 women and 7 men participated in the consultation. They came from Philippines (4), India (1), Pakistan (1), Thailand/Burma (1), Cambodia (1), Thailand (9), Laos (2), Burma (2), Malaysia (1), Indonesia (4), India/Nagaland (3), and USA (1). There were 11 Buddhists, 13 Christians, 2 Hindus and 4 Muslims.


5) The Progamme Contents

        1) Morning Reflections
            Each morning, members of one faith group led in a short time of prayer and
            reflection based on their own traditions. This helped build understanding
            and respect and also helped the participants focus more clearly on the
            issue of gender justice and the responsibility of our religious communities in
            addressing this issue.
        2) Gender Sensitivity Exercises
            Community building processes during the consultation involved gender
            sensitivity exercises for both men and women. These exercises were
            designed to help people recognize some of the gender issues that exist
            and begin thinking creatively about how to address these issues.

        3) Sharing of personal stories
            In small groups, participants shared their own experiences of working for
            gender justice to help the consultation recognize the resources among the
            participants for empowerment, healing and wholeness.

        4) National Story Telling
            Each country was asked to present a case study expressing how images
            of men and women are articulated by religious institutions and leaders. The
            case studies also presented personal stories of the pain men and women
            experience caused by religious norms or expectations, and of processes of
            healing. Experiences of living together with people of other faiths, sharing
            of power, spirituality and peace were also an important part of these case
            studies.
        5) Presentations by Religious Groups
            A panel consisting of one representative from each faith presented a study
            and analysis of their own sacred texts, teachings and practices related to
            gender, different interpretations in the light of historical development and
            the scope for peace building efforts in terms of promoting gender justice
            and genuine partnership among men and women of their own faiths.

        6) Small Group Discussions
            At different times throughout the consultation, the group divided into
            smaller groups for more in-depth discussions on the issues being raised.
            These smaller groups allowed greater participation and sharing of all
            participants of the consultation and also provided time for brainstorming
            and strategizing. The reports of these small groups to the plenary helped
            form the final statement and recommendations of the consultation. (See
            attached statement for details)
        7) Exposure Visit
            An exposure trip was arranged to a center run by a Buddhist monk that
            provides counseling and help to gays and lesbians. This visit helped
            provoke much deeper discussions on how religion can be used to alienate
            certain people based on gender.


6) Impact of the Consultation


While the actual impact of the consultation on the lives and work of the participants can only truly be evaluated in the future, the enthusiastic participation of all attendees suggests that the issues, hopes and strategies raised has had a positive effect. The discussions raised the issue of gender inequality in the four major religious traditions which suggests a process of self-critique. Participants recognized that there is gender inequality and that much too often this inequality is fostered and promoted by the way the religious faith is taught and practiced. The consciousness thus raised will hopefully motivate the participants to continue working in these issues and initiate actions that can bring about positive transformation and healing. The recommendations that grew out of the consultation process, as listed in the attached Statement, show the seriousness with which participants related to the issues and the importance they placed on seeking solutions.

Furthermore, the consultation has re-affirmed common human/religious values shared across religions that lead us toward better understanding of one another, greater tolerance of the “other”, healing and reconciliation.

The identified actions have given a clear guide for the continuation of this interfaith dialogue on gender equality. Follow-up actions based on these recommendations can help the continuation of community building among different faiths and between the different genders.


Final Statement

WE

Hindu, Muslim, Buddhist and Christian women and men coming from India, Pakistan, Laos, Burma, Cambodia, Thailand, Philippines and Indonesia

living our faiths in community and celebrating the richness and diversity of our cultures and traditions here at Wongsanit Ashram, Thailand on 14-19 May 2004,

having honestly reflected and humbly consulted each other on Gender Justice and Genuine partnership of Men and Women,

and acknowledging our common victimization and complicity to patriarchy in varied manifestations in our Asian context,

pronounce the following:

Towards attaining our envisioned Asian community where
        - women and men are treated equally as full human beings
        - men and women are equal partners in decision making in all spheres of human
          life
        - in the economic, social, political, religious and domestic
        - the marginalized and the oppressed are liberated and empowered;

We recognize patriarchy embedded in our cultures and religions as the root cause of the issues that we confront now and manifests itself in:
        - Prohibition of women from access to power and decision making in social life
        and structures

        - Relegation of women in the domestic sphere that undermines women’s full
        realization of their potentials

        - Misinterpretation of sacred texts and traditions to perpetuate the
        marginalization and violation of women

        - Justification of traditions and practices which are oppressive to women to
        maintain the interests of the powerful and the rich represented by elite men
        in communities

        - Ignorance, which has kept Asians in the dark of oppression and hindered
        them from realizing their full human potentials

        - Globalization and its evil effects that has kept majority of Asians in the depth
        of poverty and exploitation.


In this context, we positively acknowledge the liberating themes and efforts that emerge around Asia:
        - Building of inclusive communities that
            1) promotes interrelatedness, mindfulness and loving kindness among all
            created beings

            2) supports women’s participation in all areas of life and genuine partnership
            with the men

            3) encourages the voiceless to speak towards genuine dialogue
            4) critiques the practices and traditions that negates the dignity of human
            beings

        - Women’s attempts at reading and interpreting sacred texts in context and
        recover its liberating, empowering and transforming themes


We believe that we can take actions to address the issues we have named. Therefore, towards a genuine partnership of women and men, we commit ourselves to do the following:

On Violence Against Women


Awareness building on the issue

Outreach and service to victims
    - Legal and para-legal assistance
    - Economic support and empowerment
    - Shelter for victims

Advocacy and mobilization
    - Organize public pressure and support
    - Document cases
    - Research and publication, documentation to expose issues
    - Generate support from religious authority figures (e.g. Islamic scholars)
    - Organize women’s groups and support groups



On Gender Participation


Advocate the equal participation of women in policy and decision-making bodies
        - Equal participation of men and women in the revision and implementation of
        legislation towards equal representation (include HR experts, NGOs, rep from
        all religions of communities)

        - Awareness programs (Campaigns, workshops, seminars, literature, media,
        consultation, dialog, training)

        - Re-reading and re-interpreting all sacred texts by men and women

On Gender Discrimination in religious education
        - Publication of inter-religious materials
        - Inter-faith critique of education materials to identify to identify gender
        discrimination and to do re-reading of texts

        - Interfaith development of curriculum for religious education that promotes
        culture of peace

        - Inter-faith efforts of doing justice and sharing in interfaith consultation
        - Networking of inter-religious educators
        - Dialogue between cultures and religions

On Globalization and consumerism
        - Publications (for awareness building)
        - Contemplative mind retreat (to reclaim women spirit)
        - Promote and educate value-based product and fair market in religious
        establishments and communities

        - Trainings on feminist religious perspective
        - Seminar on “sustainable economy and fair market analysis”

We ended the Consultation in prayer and hope that in our return to our respective communities, we are able to start transforming our selves and our faith communities towards attaining our envisioned Asian community.

May divine wisdom fill us and enlightenment guide our path. So be it.

19 May 2004

Closing Liturgy

Buddhist Friends’ Prayers

Creed:

We believe in life, not death;
We believe in goodness not evil;
We believe in hope, not despair;
We believe in the power of God’s Spirit given to us,
women and men, to build a just society.
We believe it is better to give one’s life for another than to take another’s life for our benefit.
We believe it is better to struggle in danger than to die in despair.
We believe it is better to be punished for the truth than to die in the darkness of lies and injustice.
We believe in our own goodness and our ability to share that goodness with others for their advancement.
We believe in the Reign of God; Now a reign of love, justice and truth, and the fruits of this which is peace.
We believe that we can sacrifice ourselves for the good of others to build up this reign of God now.
We believe that God understands our fears and weaknesses.
We also believe that God challenges us to rise above these fears and weaknesses in order to struggle in hope for a re-created society.


Offering:

Philippines:            To engage in a serious and ongoing study on the teachings of the
                              Church with respect to the dignity of women. 

Indonesia:             To design and implement programs to enable parents and teachers
                              to improve the socialization process towards equality between men
                              and women, value formation and appreciation of ecology for children.

Myanmar:              To undertake seriously and comprehensively sessions preparing
                              couples for marriage and ongoing formation for the married in order
                              to help them understand and respect each other’s sexuality.

Thailand:               To encourage women in Asia to be more active in formulating and
                              implementing strategies to solve issues concerning women,
                              especially those merged in poverty and victims of violence.

USA:                      To initiate awareness campaigns on women’s dignity and vocation for
                              different sectors of society with the use of media technology.

Laos:                     To encourage the formation of women’s groups in the neighbourhood
                              for sharing experiences and building solidarity.

Pakistan:               To have a common definition and understanding of feminism from a
                              Christian, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist perspective that will guide our
                              work for women.

India:                     That more religious leaders should listen to women and be
                              responsive to their problems.

Malaysia:                To express sensitivity through the use of inclusive language.

All:                          To encourage the development of a spirituality from the women’s
                               perspective.

All:                          We are deeply grateful to the organizing team for all the
                               arrangements made to ensure our comfort and facilitate the smooth
                               running of the meeting.


(Blessings from our Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist and Christian friends)



Blessings

All: May God go with each one of us
May God hold us in love
May God reveal to us God’s presence in our hearts
May God unite us to work for the transformation of our world
May our God who holds us in being, who reveals Love to us, and who dwells in our hearts bless us for the journey ahead.

Circle dance: Singing of the peace song and lighting of a candle which is passed to everyone.